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Family members say “no one will be safe” or “I’ll take the kids and leave” — don’t dismiss this as anger: close relatives can take such a person to the hospital, and police must respond to any emergency call.

身边人说出「谁也别想好过」「带着孩子一起走」,别当气话:近亲属可以直接送诊,公安接到报警也必须管

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Registration and consultation fees range from a few dozen to several hundred yuan. Accompanying the person to the hospital takes half a day to a full day. The real challenge is getting them to agree to go.

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When family members say things like “no one will be safe” or “I’ll take the kids and leave,” close relatives have the right to take that person to a hospital, where treatment cannot be refused. If there has already been violence or an imminent risk of harm, hospitalization does not require the person’s consent. If it’s unclear whether these statements are just angry outbursts or genuine threats, call 12356 for advice or dial 110 so police can intervene. Keeping this information secret does not help the person at all.

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The source summarizes the return this way: “When family members say things like “no one will be safe” or “I’ll take the kids and leave,” close relatives have the right to take that person to a hospital, where treatment cannot be refused. If there has already been violence or an imminent risk of harm, hospitalization does not require the person’s consent. If it’s unclear whether these statements are just angry outbursts or genuine threats, call 12356 for advice or dial 110 so police can intervene. Keeping this information secret does not help the person at all.” Evidence grade A. The original states the population, caveats, and sources; this is not a personal forecast.

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15. Family members say “no one will be safe” or “I’ll take the kids and leave” — don’t dismiss this as anger: close relatives can take such a person to the hospital, and police must respond to any emergency call.

Cost: Registration and consultation fees range from a few dozen to several hundred yuan. Accompanying the person to the hospital takes half a day to a full day. The real challenge is getting them to agree to go.

In plain terms: When family members say things like “no one will be safe” or “I’ll take the kids and leave,” close relatives have the right to take that person to a hospital, where treatment cannot be refused. If there has already been violence or an imminent risk of harm, hospitalization does not require the person’s consent. If it’s unclear whether these statements are just angry outbursts or genuine threats, call 12356 for advice or dial 110 so police can intervene. Keeping this information secret does not help the person at all.

Benefit: Article 28, paragraph 2 of the Mental Health Law states: “When a suspected mental disorder patient exhibits behavior that harms themselves or others, or shows a clear risk of doing so, their close relatives, employer, or local police must act immediately to stop such behavior and arrange transport to a medical facility for diagnosis.” The same article also requires hospitals to accept and diagnose any such patients without refusal. Article 29 mandates that hospitals admit these individuals right away, assign a licensed psychiatrist for evaluation, and issue a diagnosis promptly. Article 30 says voluntary admission is the norm, except in cases where the diagnosis confirms a severe mental disorder accompanied by actual or imminent harm to others — in such cases, involuntary hospitalization is permitted. Making threats of violence is grounds for calling 110. Writing threatening letters or using other means to endanger someone’s safety can result in detention for up to five days or a fine of up to 1000 yuan. Those who threaten to commit arson, explosions, or other acts endangering public safety face detention from five to ten days and a similar fine (effective January 1, 2026 under China’s Public Security Administration Punishment Law).

Evidence grade: A

Sources: National People's Congress Standing Committee (2025). Public Security Management Punishment Law (2025 revision, Article 29, 50). <https://www.spp.gov.cn/spp/fl/202506/t20250627_699863.shtml>; National People's Congress Standing Committee (2012, 2018 revision). Mental Health Law (28, 2018). Articles 29, 30, 35). <https://www.gov.cn/guoqing/2021-10/29/content_5647635.htm>; French Air Accident Investigation Bureau BEA (2016). Final Report BEA2015-0125.en: Accident on 24 March 2015 at Prads-Haute-Bléone to the Airbus A320-211 registered D-AIPX operated by Germanwings. <https://bea.aero/uploads/tx_elydbrapports/BEA2015-0125.en-LR.pdf>

Notes: This guidance applies to spouses, parents, and children living in the same household. The phrase “no one will be safe” clearly includes the speaker, and the law grants this right specifically to close relatives — outsiders cannot intervene without police involvement. This rule targets genuine danger signs, not angry remarks during arguments or attempts to force uncooperative family members into treatment. Conversely, Article 35 states that if further evaluation proves the person does not have a serious mental disorder, they must be released from the hospital. When in doubt, call 12356 or 110. The investigation into Germanwings Flight 9525 revealed that authorities and employers could not prevent the co-pilot from flying that day because “neither he nor anyone else — doctors, colleagues, or family — informed them of his condition.” All 150 people on board perished: two pilots, four flight attendants, and 144 passengers. Keeping such risks hidden is never helpful.

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15. 身边人说出「谁也别想好过」「带着孩子一起走」,别当气话:近亲属可以直接送诊,公安接到报警也必须管

成本: 挂号和诊查费几十到几百元。陪着跑一趟医院,要花半天到一天。难在开口劝他跟你去。

说人话: 家里人说出「谁也别想好过」「带着孩子一起走」,近亲属可以直接把他送去医院,医院不得拒绝诊断。已经动过手、或者眼看要出事的,住院不需要本人同意。分不清是气话还是真的,先打 12356 问,或者报 110 让警察到场。替他瞒着不算帮他。

收益: 精神卫生法第二十八条第二款写着:「疑似精神障碍患者发生伤害自身、危害他人安全的行为,或者有伤害自身、危害他人安全的危险的,其近亲属、所在单位、当地公安机关应当立即采取措施予以制止,并将其送往医疗机构进行精神障碍诊断」。同一条还规定:「医疗机构接到送诊的疑似精神障碍患者,不得拒绝为其作出诊断」。第二十九条要求医院把这类送来的人留在院里,立即指派精神科执业医师诊断,并及时出具结论。第三十条规定,住院治疗以自愿为原则。但有一种例外:诊断结论表明是严重精神障碍患者,而且「已经发生危害他人安全的行为,或者有危害他人安全的危险的」。这一类应当对他实施住院治疗,不以本人同意为前提。扬言伤人本身就可以直接报 110。写恐吓信,或者用其他办法威胁他人人身安全的,拘留 5 日以下或者罚 1000 元以下。扬言要实施放火、爆炸、投放危险物质等危害公共安全的犯罪行为,又把公共秩序搅乱了的,拘留 5 到 10 日,并可以罚 1000 元以下(全国,治安管理处罚法 2026 年 1 月 1 日起施行)

证据等级: A

来源: 全国人大常委会 (2025). 治安管理处罚法(2025 年修订,第二十九、五十条). <https://www.spp.gov.cn/spp/fl/202506/t20250627_699863.shtml>;全国人大常委会 (2012,2018 修正). 精神卫生法(第二十八、二十九、三十、三十五条). <https://www.gov.cn/guoqing/2021-10/29/content_5647635.htm>;法国航空事故调查局 BEA (2016). Final Report BEA2015-0125.en: Accident on 24 March 2015 at Prads-Haute-Bléone to the Airbus A320-211 registered D-AIPX operated by Germanwings. <https://bea.aero/uploads/tx_elydbrapports/BEA2015-0125.en-LR.pdf>

备注: 按受益人口径,这条算的是同住的配偶、父母、子女。「谁也别想好过」里通常就包括你,而且法律把送诊的权利给的正是近亲属,外人想管也管不了,只能报警。送诊只用于真实的危险信号,吵架时的气话不算,也不能拿它把不听话的家人关进医院。同一部法律也写着:再查一次或者做了鉴定,认定人没有严重精神障碍的,医院不得留他住院(第三十五条)。分不清就先打 12356 问,或者报 110 让警察到场。拿不准他是不是想寻死,可以直接问,问了不会让他更想,见第 1 节第 43 条(直接问身边情绪不对的人)。德翼 9525 航班的调查结论是:当局和雇主没办法采取任何措施,阻止副驾驶当天飞行。原因是「无论是他本人,还是任何其他人——医生、同事或者家属——都没有告知他们」。机上 150 人全部遇难,其中 2 名飞行员、4 名乘务员、144 名乘客。

Author's scope notes: 按受益人口径,这条算的是同住的配偶、父母、子女。「谁也别想好过」里通常就包括你,而且法律把送诊的权利给的正是近亲属,外人想管也管不了,只能报警。送诊只用于真实的危险信号,吵架时的气话不算,也不能拿它把不听话的家人关进医院。同一部法律也写着:再查一次或者做了鉴定,认定人没有严重精神障碍的,医院不得留他住院(第三十五条)。分不清就先打 12356 问,或者报 110 让警察到场。拿不准他是不是想寻死,可以直接问,问了不会让他更想,见第 1 节第 43 条(直接问身边情绪不对的人)。德翼 9525 航班的调查结论是:当局和雇主没办法采取任何措施,阻止副驾驶当天飞行。原因是「无论是他本人,还是任何其他人——医生、同事或者家属——都没有告知他们」。机上 150 人全部遇难,其中 2 名飞行员、4 名乘务员、144 名乘客。

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