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When gambling leads to borrowing money and persistent low mood, call 12356 first and then hand over your bank cards and payment passwords to family members.

赌到借钱还赌、心情一直低落时,先打 12356,再把银行卡和支付密码交给家人管

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No cost involved. Simply make one phone call and give your bank cards, payment passwords, and gambling apps to a family member. The hardest part is admitting that you’ve lost control over your gambling behavior.

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Individuals who have sought treatment for gambling problems are 15 times more likely to die by suicide and 1.8 times more likely to die overall compared to their peers. Depression serves as a key warning sign for potential suicide. Therefore, if you find yourself gambling despite owing money and feeling persistently down, call 12356 right away.

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The source summarizes the return this way: “Individuals who have sought treatment for gambling problems are 15 times more likely to die by suicide and 1.8 times more likely to die overall compared to their peers. Depression serves as a key warning sign for potential suicide. Therefore, if you find yourself gambling despite owing money and feeling persistently down, call 12356 right away.” Evidence grade B. The original states the population, caveats, and sources; this is not a personal forecast.

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37. When gambling leads to borrowing money and persistent low mood, call 12356 first and then hand over your bank cards and payment passwords to family members.

Cost: No cost involved. Simply make one phone call and give your bank cards, payment passwords, and gambling apps to a family member. The hardest part is admitting that you’ve lost control over your gambling behavior.

In plain terms: Individuals who have sought treatment for gambling problems are 15 times more likely to die by suicide and 1.8 times more likely to die overall compared to their peers. Depression serves as a key warning sign for potential suicide. Therefore, if you find yourself gambling despite owing money and feeling persistently down, call 12356 right away.

Benefit: A nationwide Swedish registry study examined 2,099 individuals diagnosed with gambling disorder between 2005 and 2016. Gambling disorder is defined as an inability to control gambling habits, which negatively impacts daily life. Compared to the general Swedish population aged 20–74, these individuals showed a 1.8-fold increase in overall mortality and a 15-fold increase in suicide mortality (these figures represent standardized mortality ratios). Over the follow-up period, 67 participants died, including 21 from suicide. Depression proved to be a reliable predictor of suicide risk. In a 2023 correction, researchers reported that the suicide risk was 12.1 times higher for men and 16.1 times higher for women. Starting May 1, 2025, China launched a nationwide mental health hotline at 12356, available at least 18 hours per day.

Evidence grade: B

Sources: Karlsson A, Håkansson A. (2018). Gambling disorder, increased mortality, suicidality, and associated comorbidity: A longitudinal nationwide register study. Journal of Behavioral Addictions, 7(4), 1091–1099. <https://doi.org/10.1556/2006.7.2018.112>; Karlsson A, Håkansson A. (2023). Corrigendum to: Gambling disorder, increased mortality, suicidality, and associated comorbidity. Journal of Behavioral Addictions, 12(1), 302. <https://doi.org/10.1556/2006.2023.10000>; National Health Commission of China (NHC) (2024). "12356" (〔2024〕259 ). <https://www.gov.cn/zhengce/zhengceku/202412/content_6994470.htm>

Notes: This grade is assigned because only one study exists, and it includes only individuals who sought specialist care — a group with relatively severe conditions. Consequently, the 15-fold suicide risk increase cannot be generalized to all gamblers. Handing over financial control to family members is a widely practiced approach, though lacking direct research support; thus it receives a C grade. Legal boundaries regarding gambling are outlined in Section 9, Article 13 (prohibiting bookmaking and online gambling). Whether family members should repay gambling debts incurred by a spouse is discussed in Section 8, Article 44 (such debts do not qualify as joint marital obligations). For guidance on responding to suicidal thoughts, refer to Rule 32 of this section (inform a trusted person immediately). The primary beneficiaries are the gamblers themselves; however, family members who notice warning signs can also encourage them to follow these steps.

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37. 赌到借钱还赌、心情一直低落时,先打 12356,再把银行卡和支付密码交给家人管

成本: 不花钱。打一个电话。把银行卡、支付密码和借贷 App 交给家人管。难在要先承认自己控制不住。

说人话: 去医院看过赌博问题的人,自杀死亡是同龄人的 15 倍,总死亡是 1.8 倍。能预先看出谁会自杀的信号是抑郁。所以赌到借钱还赌、情绪一直低落,先打 12356。

收益: 瑞典一项全国登记研究,找出 2005 到 2016 年在专科被诊断为赌博障碍的 2099 人。赌博障碍就是控制不住地赌、赌到影响生活。和同龄的瑞典人比,20 到 74 岁这些人的总死亡率是 1.8 倍,自杀死亡率是 15 倍(这两个数是标准化死亡比 SMR)。随访期间 67 人死亡,其中 21 人死于自杀。能预测自杀死亡的是抑郁。作者 2023 年发了更正:男性自杀是 12.1 倍,女性是 16.1 倍。中国从 2025 年 5 月 1 日起,全国拨 12356 能接通心理援助热线,每天开通不少于 18 小时(瑞典 / 全国)

证据等级: B

来源: Karlsson A, Håkansson A. (2018). Gambling disorder, increased mortality, suicidality, and associated comorbidity: A longitudinal nationwide register study. Journal of Behavioral Addictions, 7(4), 1091–1099. <https://doi.org/10.1556/2006.7.2018.112>;Karlsson A, Håkansson A. (2023). Corrigendum to: Gambling disorder, increased mortality, suicidality, and associated comorbidity. Journal of Behavioral Addictions, 12(1), 302. <https://doi.org/10.1556/2006.2023.10000>;国家卫生健康委 (2024). 关于应用"12356"全国统一心理援助热线电话号码的通知(国卫医政函〔2024〕259 号). <https://www.gov.cn/zhengce/zhengceku/202412/content_6994470.htm>

备注: 给 B 是因为只有一项研究,而且只算了去专科看过病的人。这些人病情偏重,所以 15 倍不能套到所有打牌的人身上。把钱交给家人管是经验做法,没有直接研究,单算是 C 级。赌博的法律红线见第 9 节第 13 条(不抽头、不玩网络赌博)。家里人欠了赌债该不该替他还,见第 8 节第 44 条(赌债不算夫妻共同债务)。自杀念头冒出来之后怎么办,见本节第 32 条(先告诉身边的一个人)。受益人主要是你自己,家人发现苗头时也可以拉着他照这条办。

Author's scope notes: 给 B 是因为只有一项研究,而且只算了去专科看过病的人。这些人病情偏重,所以 15 倍不能套到所有打牌的人身上。把钱交给家人管是经验做法,没有直接研究,单算是 C 级。赌博的法律红线见第 9 节第 13 条(不抽头、不玩网络赌博)。家里人欠了赌债该不该替他还,见第 8 节第 44 条(赌债不算夫妻共同债务)。自杀念头冒出来之后怎么办,见本节第 32 条(先告诉身边的一个人)。受益人主要是你自己,家人发现苗头时也可以拉着他照这条办。

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