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If someone threatens to call the police, post intimate photos, or inform your workplace unless you pay up — don’t give them a single cent and don’t delete any records; call the police right away.

发生关系、裸聊之后对方拿报警、发照片、告诉你单位来要钱,一分钱不给,一条记录不删,直接报警

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There’s no monetary cost. Take screenshots of their account info, chat logs, and payment codes, then head to the nearest police station with your phone. The hardest part is resisting the urge to “pay to make it go away.”

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Using threats like “I’ll call the cops” or “I’ll send these photos to your boss” to force you to pay is extortion. Paying even once only invites more demands. If they actually post the photos, that adds another criminal charge. Extortion involving sums between 2,000 and 5,000 yuan carries a maximum sentence of three years; amounts from 30,000 to 100,000 yuan can lead to 3–10 years behind bars.

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The source summarizes the return this way: “Using threats like “I’ll call the cops” or “I’ll send these photos to your boss” to force you to pay is extortion. Paying even once only invites more demands. If they actually post the photos, that adds another criminal charge. Extortion involving sums between 2,000 and 5,000 yuan carries a maximum sentence of three years; amounts from 30,000 to 100,000 yuan can lead to 3–10 years behind bars.” Evidence grade A. The original states the population, caveats, and sources; this is not a personal forecast.

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32. If someone threatens to call the police, post intimate photos, or inform your workplace unless you pay up — don’t give them a single cent and don’t delete any records; call the police right away.

Cost: There’s no monetary cost. Take screenshots of their account info, chat logs, and payment codes, then head to the nearest police station with your phone. The hardest part is resisting the urge to “pay to make it go away.”

In plain terms: Using threats like “I’ll call the cops” or “I’ll send these photos to your boss” to force you to pay is extortion. Paying even once only invites more demands. If they actually post the photos, that adds another criminal charge. Extortion involving sums between 2,000 and 5,000 yuan carries a maximum sentence of three years; amounts from 30,000 to 100,000 yuan can lead to 3–10 years behind bars.

Benefit: Article 274 of the Criminal Law stipulates that extortion of property — whether a single sizable sum or repeated smaller ones — is punishable by up to three years in prison, detention, or probation, plus a fine. Larger or especially egregious cases incur longer sentences. The Supreme People’s Court and Supreme People’s Procuratorate further define these thresholds: 2,000–5,000 yuan marks “a relatively large amount”; 30,000–100,000 yuan is “a huge amount”; 300,000–500,000 yuan qualifies as “an especially huge amount.” Article 1032 of the Civil Code protects privacy, while Article 1033 bars any interference with personal peace via calls, texts, or messaging apps.

Evidence grade: A

Sources: National People's Congress (amended in 2020). Criminal Law (Article 274). <https://jtgl.beijing.gov.cn/jgj/jgxx/flfg/fl/11033925/index.html> (Reprinted and consolidated text by Beijing Public Security and Traffic Management Bureau); Supreme People's Court of China, Supreme People's Procuratorate of China (2013). Interpretation on Several Issues Concerning the Application of Law in Handling Criminal Cases of Extortion (Fa Interpretation [2013] No. 10). <https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/5310.html>; National People’s Congress (2020). Civil Code (Articles 1032, 1033). <https://www.spp.gov.cn/spp/fl/202006/t20200602_463888.shtml>; National People's Congress (2020). Civil Code (Article 1195): "The rights holder has the right to notify the network service provider to take deletion, blocking, Necessary measures such as disconnecting the link. The notification should include preliminary evidence of infringement and the true identity information of the right holder. "If necessary measures are not taken in a timely manner, the network user shall be jointly and severally liable for the expanded damage." <https://flk.npc.gov.cn/detail?id=ff808081729d1efe01729d50b5c500bf> (National Laws and Regulations Database); Fujian Provincial Public Security Department (2024). Because of a "hookup" message, I was saddled with a debt of RMB 230,000. <http://gat.fujian.gov.cn/ztzl/fjjffpzxrx/spjq/202403/t20240307_6410612.htm>; Procuratorate Daily (2018). Unrepentant after being sentenced twice, exposing privacy to threaten netizens (Reprinted from the website of the People's Procuratorate of Gulou District, Xuzhou City). <https://xzgl.jsjc.gov.cn/jianwu/baxiang/201804/t20180409_420934.shtml>; Procuratorate Daily (2022). A man threatened 10 women to have a relationship with them by publishing nude photos, and big data screening "called the police"! (Supreme People's Procuratorate of China website). <https://www.spp.gov.cn/zdgz/202212/t20221212_595435.shtml>

Notes: Exact monetary thresholds vary by province within the limits set by national law. Repeated extortion — even if each sum is modest — also qualifies as a serious offense. Never delete chats, photos, or accounts; doing so destroys crucial evidence. If authorities open an investigation, those records become vital proof on your behalf. Avoid any notion of “installment negotiations” — most online extortion rings operate overseas and employ malware to harvest contacts. Threats to expose someone’s sexual orientation are equally illegal. In one Jiangsu case, a repeat offender demanded 14,500 yuan after arranging a meeting; he was prosecuted despite prior convictions for similar tactics. Using nude images to coerce sexual acts constitutes rape. In Zhejiang, a perpetrator amassed nude photos of ten women and blackmailed them; even when victims never met him, courts still convicted him of attempted rape. Never share intimate images online. Conversely, if you’re the victim seeking compensation, higher amounts do not automatically constitute extortion — see Section 36 for details. Should photos appear online, the Civil Code (Article 1195) entitles you to demand removal from platforms; failure to act promptly can make them jointly liable for ensuing damages. 〔2013〕 〔2013〕

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32. 发生关系、裸聊之后对方拿报警、发照片、告诉你单位来要钱,一分钱不给,一条记录不删,直接报警

成本: 不花钱。截图对方的账号、聊天记录和收款码,带着手机去派出所。难的是忍住「先给钱平事」的念头。

说人话: 拿「我去报警」「把照片发给你单位」要挟你给钱,是敲诈勒索。一分钱不给,一条记录不删,当场报警,给了第一笔就会有第二笔。对方真把照片发出去,是他多一条罪。敲诈 2000 到 5000 元以上就判 3 年以下,3 万到 10 万以上判 3 到 10 年。

收益: 《刑法》第二百七十四条:敲诈勒索公私财物,数额较大或者多次敲诈勒索的,处三年以下有期徒刑、拘役或者管制,并处或者单处罚金。拘役是短期关押,管制是不关押但限制自由,并处或者单处罚金就是另外罚钱或者只罚钱。数额巨大或者有其他严重情节的,处三年以上十年以下有期徒刑,并处罚金。数额特别巨大或者有其他特别严重情节的,处十年以上有期徒刑,并处罚金。两高还有一份解释:《关于办理敲诈勒索刑事案件适用法律若干问题的解释》(法释〔2013〕10 号,2013 年 4 月 27 日起施行)。这份解释的第一条定了三档金额。敲诈勒索公私财物价值二千元至五千元以上的,认定为「数额较大」。三万元至十万元以上的,认定为「数额巨大」。三十万元至五十万元以上的,认定为「数额特别巨大」。第三条:二年内敲诈勒索三次以上的,应当认定为「多次敲诈勒索」(全国)。民法典第一千零三十二条:任何组织或者个人不得以刺探、侵扰、泄露、公开等方式侵害他人的隐私权。第一千零三十三条禁止以电话、短信、即时通讯工具等方式侵扰私人生活安宁。所以对方真把照片发出去,是他多一条罪。福建省公安厅同类案件提示的原话是:「一定要保存好证据,及时拨打 110,切勿继续转账」

证据等级: A

来源: 全国人大 (2020 年修正). 刑法(第二百七十四条). <https://jtgl.beijing.gov.cn/jgj/jgxx/flfg/fl/11033925/index.html>(北京市公安交管局转载整合文本);最高人民法院、最高人民检察院 (2013). 关于办理敲诈勒索刑事案件适用法律若干问题的解释(法释〔2013〕10 号). <https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/5310.html>;全国人大 (2020). 民法典(第一千零三十二、一千零三十三条). <https://www.spp.gov.cn/spp/fl/202006/t20200602_463888.shtml>;全国人大 (2020). 民法典(第一千一百九十五条):「权利人有权通知网络服务提供者采取删除、屏蔽、断开链接等必要措施。通知应当包括构成侵权的初步证据及权利人的真实身份信息」「未及时采取必要措施的,对损害的扩大部分与该网络用户承担连带责任」. <https://flk.npc.gov.cn/detail?id=ff808081729d1efe01729d50b5c500bf>(国家法律法规数据库);福建省公安厅 (2024). 因为一条「约炮」信息,我背上 23 万的债务. <http://gat.fujian.gov.cn/ztzl/fjjffpzxrx/spjq/202403/t20240307_6410612.htm>;检察日报 (2018). 两次获刑不思悔改 曝光隐私要挟网友(徐州市鼓楼区人民检察院网站转载). <https://xzgl.jsjc.gov.cn/jianwu/baxiang/201804/t20180409_420934.shtml>;检察日报 (2022). 男子以公布裸照威胁10名女性与其发生关系,大数据筛查「报警」!(最高人民检察院网站). <https://www.spp.gov.cn/zdgz/202212/t20221212_595435.shtml>

备注: 三档金额是各省在司法解释给的幅度内自己定的。2000 到 5000 元以上算「数额较大」。3 万到 10 万元以上算「数额巨大」。30 万到 50 万元以上算「数额特别巨大」。落到你所在的省是哪个数,以当地标准为准。两年内敲诈三次以上的,每次金额不大也算「多次」。别自己删聊天记录、删照片、注销账号、拉黑了事,那是把自己的证据也删了,见本节第 5 条(被传唤先请律师、不删记录)。真被立案调查的,这些记录同时是你自证的材料。也别试图「谈判分期」。裸聊敲诈多是境外团伙干的,他们一边录屏,一边用木马读走你的通讯录。「群发给家人」是话术,报警后照样能立案。拿「告诉你家里人你喜欢同性」要挟要钱,也是同一种敲诈。江苏盐城有人在同性社交软件上约人见面后,这样要走 1.45 万元,受害人报案后他被起诉,此前他已两次因同样手法被判刑。拿裸照逼人发生关系,按强奸罪追究。浙江象山有人在社交平台上骗到多名女性的裸照,再拿公布裸照威胁她们,查明的被害人有 10 人。其中一人收到威胁就报了警,两人没见过面,检察院仍按强奸未遂处理,最后以强奸罪、强制猥亵罪起诉。所以别给网上认识的人发裸照。反过来,你自己是受害人、去向侵权方索赔的,金额高也不等于敲诈,见本节第 36 条(自己是受害人去索赔)。照片真被发到网上的,可以通知平台删除。民法典第一千一百九十五条规定,你有权通知平台删除、屏蔽、断开链接,通知里要附上侵权的初步证据和你的真实身份信息。平台收到通知不及时处理的,扩大的那部分损害由它和发帖人一起赔。

Author's scope notes: 三档金额是各省在司法解释给的幅度内自己定的。2000 到 5000 元以上算「数额较大」。3 万到 10 万元以上算「数额巨大」。30 万到 50 万元以上算「数额特别巨大」。落到你所在的省是哪个数,以当地标准为准。两年内敲诈三次以上的,每次金额不大也算「多次」。别自己删聊天记录、删照片、注销账号、拉黑了事,那是把自己的证据也删了,见本节第 5 条(被传唤先请律师、不删记录)。真被立案调查的,这些记录同时是你自证的材料。也别试图「谈判分期」。裸聊敲诈多是境外团伙干的,他们一边录屏,一边用木马读走你的通讯录。「群发给家人」是话术,报警后照样能立案。拿「告诉你家里人你喜欢同性」要挟要钱,也是同一种敲诈。江苏盐城有人在同性社交软件上约人见面后,这样要走 1.45 万元,受害人报案后他被起诉,此前他已两次因同样手法被判刑。拿裸照逼人发生关系,按强奸罪追究。浙江象山有人在社交平台上骗到多名女性的裸照,再拿公布裸照威胁她们,查明的被害人有 10 人。其中一人收到威胁就报了警,两人没见过面,检察院仍按强奸未遂处理,最后以强奸罪、强制猥亵罪起诉。所以别给网上认识的人发裸照。反过来,你自己是受害人、去向侵权方索赔的,金额高也不等于敲诈,见本节第 36 条(自己是受害人去索赔)。照片真被发到网上的,可以通知平台删除。民法典第一千一百九十五条规定,你有权通知平台删除、屏蔽、断开链接,通知里要附上侵权的初步证据和你的真实身份信息。平台收到通知不及时处理的,扩大的那部分损害由它和发帖人一起赔。

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